If CJ doesn't want contact with you, I'd presume it's because I let her hear what you wrote about her. I'd written you an email to keep it private and *between us*, but since you went ahead and forwarded our conversation to Alex, Maren, and Grandma, I figured why not, she may want to know what our mother has to say about her.
And FYI, I don't feel like there are things 'hiding' behind every word. I feel like it is HER business, and if she wants to tell me she will, and I will be privileged to hear it! Just because she is your daughter does NOT mean you are entitled to hear every detail of her life, so grow up. There are no shadows. There is only PRIVACY, and her decision whether or not to share it.
Oh and by the way, I AM proud. She is my SISTER. I am proud of her, just as I am proud of Brittany for doing what she feels is right, Danielle just for being Danielle (she's a pretty awesome kid), and Patrick for putting up with YOUR abusive bullshit. And though Chrissy may have done some stupid stuff, who hasn't??? We've all done stupid crap, even if it's not always the same stupid crap. I'm still VERY proud of her. And if she's turned out just like me, then kudos to her! At least that means she doesn't let people push her around and walk all over her. But personally, I think she's much better than me, and I'd very much like to be like her in a lot of ways.
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